Why can’t others be happy or see the happiness in others, instead of just talking shit and trying to bring that person down? Realizing that your priorities are much more different than other’s who seem to have theirs fucked up, it’s called growing up and everyone goes through it. Some people can be so immature when it comes to certain situations. Instead of trying to hear others out, they’re so quick to assume shit. I understand that there should be a balance between spending time with your boyfriend/girlfriend and friends, but if you’re with someone who’s changed your life in a positive way and makes you happy why do you feel the need to talk shit about it on a social media network? I guarantee you that if you found someone who changed your life in a positive way and brought you back up when you were down, this wouldn’t even be an issue.
I find it immature that you have to go to a social media network to bitch about it, when that person follows/friends with you and can obviously see it. I don’t think it’s necessary to post your problems for the entire world to see, when it can be resolved/hashed out via text, phone call, face to face whatever. Now you’re just asking for third parties to get involved in your business and you make the situation bigger than what it really is. That’s what pisses me off about this generation, if you have a problem with someone instead of talking to that person about it, they make vague status updates/tweets about them for all of your mutual friends to see. If you have a problem with someone, call that person and if you don’t have their number than you obviously don’t know them that well to have a problem with them in the first place. And I know I’m being a hypocrite by posting this on a social media network, but this isn’t meant for one person it’s really generalized to anyone.
If you feel like your friend is putting their significant other first before you, then let that person know! MAKE AN EFFORT. It can’t just be one person who does all the work, and if you have something on your mind then say it. Otherwise what’s the point of having a mind or a mouth if you can’t speak what’s on your mind?